This seems like a very interesting, truthful and unnerving article to me! I agree with all of it but wonder if anyone can really be happy in their marriage over the long term then? it all seems so precarious and, bearing in mind many people change throughout their lives or just become more themselves, what are the odds for any relationship lasting and thriving? I’ve been married for a long time but I think being single is probably a lot less stressful for people in general.