Enjoyed this article with some very good points made. You definitely can’t foolproof relationships. I do think however that people can find fantastic real life loves. The problems kick off when they start introducing attachment and trying to control the other person in any way. Real love is the ability to love someone else, regardless of whether they love you and not to have any ‘need’ for them. With real love, you want to always give to a person as you truly appreciate what they are made of, with no thought of return or ‘getting’ anything back from them. Everything else is fascination or attachment. Love is a superior feeling — in a class of its own. And if you ever experience real love, you will know.