Enjoyed and agree with this very insightful and realistic article. I also would add that, I don’t think anyone ever has their ‘stuff’ completely healed in their whole lifetime; that would mean they stop feeling and evolving and I don’t think it’s a negative either. In the end I think it’s all about your ability to ‘manage’, accept and respect your feelings, no matter what they are. For people that can’t love themselves however, I feel they can still attract people and love towards themselves, it’s just that the process is more complicated. However, many people will be able to relate to their psychological stand-point as most people have hang-ups that are never revealed but result in them having more empathy for others’ pain.